https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20566/how-long-do-women-pull-away-for-the-timeframes-women-use 2026-03-04T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/n_iNoTtN8rA/maxresdefault.jpg How Long Do Women Pull Away For | The Timeframes Women Use Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ I explain how long women typically pull away for and what timeframes you can expect when a pullback happens. I cover why this can feel sudden and unsettling, then break down the most common ranges: most pullbacks last 2–10 days and are often tests to see who reaches out first, especially if you stay calm and let her come to you. If there are bigger issues—like neediness, jealousy, emotional reactions, or pushing the relationship too hard—pullbacks can last around 2–3 weeks. In more extreme cases, such as major mistakes or long-term relationship problems like lack of progression, a pullback can last up to six weeks or longer as a way to force change. 00:00 Why Women Pull Away 00:55 Typical Two to Ten Days 01:37 When Mistakes Extend It 02:07 Extreme Six Week Pullbacks 02:58 Get Help and Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/n_iNoTtN8rA 2026-03-04T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 218 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20565/this-is-more-attractive-to-women-than-passion-patience-vs-passion 2026-03-08T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/qLvJFQQUdP4/maxresdefault.jpg This Is More Attractive to Women Than Passion | Patience Vs Passion Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I explain why passion alone often isn’t what keeps a woman interested, even if she initially compliments a man’s energy and enthusiasm. I share a viewer’s story where being excited and trying to move things forward quickly wasn’t enough, and the woman eventually lost interest. I break down why self-control, restraint, and patience are more attractive than chasing intimacy or coming off desperate. When a woman senses a man wants her more than she wants him, attraction drops, but when a man shows emotional control and isn’t in a rush, it creates mystery and makes him more desirable. 00:00 Passion Isn’t Enough 00:45 Viewer Story and Rejection 01:12 What Women Want More 01:15 Self Control and Patience 01:52 Why Restraint Wins 02:11 Mysterious Desirability Wrap Up CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/qLvJFQQUdP4 2026-03-08T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 142 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20564/maintain-attraction-forever-secure-women-turn-into-bored-women 2026-03-10T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/rNdqvnG4JJs/maxresdefault.jpg Maintain Attraction Forever | Secure Women Turn Into Bored Women Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I explain how making a woman feel too safe and secure can lead to boredom and reduced attraction. I break down a message from a guy dating a woman who said she never wanted to feel ignored, unsafe, or taken for granted again, and how he made it his mission to prioritize her security—even at the expense of his own busy life. As he tried harder to reassure her, she pulled away, disrespected him, and became less attracted. I argue that what women say they want isn’t always what drives desire, and that comfort often reduces passion and effort over time, as seen in many long-term relationships. I also share why some women stay highly invested for years when they don’t feel they fully “have” the man. 00:00 Why Security Breeds Boredom 00:15 The Emailer’s Relationship Story 00:55 When Making Her Safe Backfires 01:43 What Women Say vs Do 02:39 Comfort Kills Attraction 03:19 Early Effort Then It Fades 03:58 Keeping Her Invested Long Term 04:29 Wrap Up and Book Plug CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/rNdqvnG4JJs 2026-03-10T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 291 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20563/when-a-woman-pulls-away-should-you-walk-away 2026-03-11T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/45IQ6pKb8ds/maxresdefault.jpg When a Woman Pulls Away Should You Walk Away? Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/45IQ6pKb8ds 2026-03-11T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 228 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20562/the-harder-you-try-the-less-women-respect-you 2026-03-12T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/F-4fddXQK00/maxresdefault.jpg The Harder You Try the Less Women Respect You Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ I explain why dating can be counterintuitive: the harder you try, the less respect and attraction you can get, and the more you invest, the less a woman may invest back. I share a story of a man who paid for an expensive weekend trip to Europe, then canceled work commitments to soothe the woman after she complained about not getting enough attention at work, only for her to become dismissive and rude afterward. I argue this happens because over-investing signals that she has all the power, removes challenge, and reduces attraction. I emphasize that men shouldn’t abandon their mission and make the relationship their purpose, and that the impulse to over-please must be controlled. 00:00 Counterintuitive Truths 00:37 Trip Gone Wrong 01:35 Trying Too Hard 02:07 Power and Challenge 02:46 Keep Your Mission 03:29 Control the Impulse 03:49 Book Recommendation CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/F-4fddXQK00 2026-03-12T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 242 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20561/the-most-powerful-way-to-spark-attraction-with-women 2026-03-15T16:00:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Lv86vJLWO0Q/maxresdefault.jpg The MOST Powerful Way to Spark Attraction with Women Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video I explain one of the most powerful ways to raise a woman’s attraction: building anticipation through mystery, challenge, and tension. I compare how men are often turned on visually (like receiving a nude) while most women aren’t turned on by explicit images from strangers, because women are more mental and emotional and respond strongly to suspense and feeling desired. I describe how moving too fast, over-texting, and being overly eager kills curiosity, while patience creates space for her to wonder when you’ll message, when she’ll see you, and what you think of her. 00:00 The One Powerful Element 00:25 Why Nudes Work Differently 00:59 Men Visual Women Emotional 01:13 Anticipation Creates Desire 01:45 Be Mystery and Challenge 02:06 Patience Versus Neediness 02:36 How to Build Anticipation 03:22 Books and Consultations 03:42 Final Sign Off CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/Lv86vJLWO0Q 2026-03-15T16:00:00.000Z Chris Canwell 229 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20560/the-power-women-actually-respond-to 2026-03-18T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/13qMDjOYTRE/maxresdefault.jpg The Power Women Actually Respond To Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video I explain why women respond to a strong masculine presence, not constant reassurance or attempts to “fix” their emotions. I share examples of men trying to talk a woman into a better mood on a date or trying to solve her life problems, only to make things worse and become an emotional dumping ground. Instead, I talk about staying confident, grounded, and unaffected by her moods, knowing when to leave early, and not falling into the trap of over-pleasing. I also cover jealousy and possessiveness, and why women don’t want insecurity—what they want is a man who knows his boundaries and can walk away if they’re crossed. 00:00 Presence Over Reassurance 00:11 Coffee Date Backfire 00:41 Hold Frame Not Fix 01:33 Reassurance Becomes Dumping 02:32 Jealousy And Insecurity 03:02 Boundaries Earn Respect 03:24 Books And Consultations 03:46 Final Sign Off CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/13qMDjOYTRE 2026-03-18T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 229 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20559/a-man-becomes-less-attractive-when-a-woman-becomes-the-napoleon-dilemma 2026-03-19T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/cAHxogntqTg/maxresdefault.jpg A Man Becomes LESS Attractive When a Woman Becomes… | The Napoleon Dilemma Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video I explain why I believe a man becomes less attractive to a woman as she gains more power in the dynamic. I describe how attraction often starts when the man feels like a mystery or a challenge, creating anticipation and uncertainty, but that idealized image can collapse if he becomes weak, possessive, desperate, or needy. As the man loses power and the woman gains it, I argue her attraction drops quickly once she feels she has more power than he does. I use Napoleon and Josephine as an example, noting that despite Napoleon’s status and conquests, his begging love letters and neediness led Josephine to cheat and treat him with disrespect, and I argue it would be even worse for an ordinary man. 00:00 Power And Attraction 00:23 Losing The Mystery 00:53 Napoleon And Josephine 01:33 Disrespect And Consequences 01:37 Lesson For Ordinary Men 01:45 Final Takeaway CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/cAHxogntqTg 2026-03-19T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 120 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20558/2-vital-signs-it-s-a-real-breakup-the-death-signs-fake-breakup-or-real 2026-03-22T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/wGHomsV1dkw/maxresdefault.jpg 2 Vital Signs It's a Real Breakup | The Death Signs | Fake Breakup or Real? Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I break down two vital signs that tell you whether a breakup is real or whether she’s just pulling away and may come back. First, I explain why her emotional state matters: if she’s angry, nostalgic, frustrated, complaining, or even says she misses you, that emotion shows attachment, meaning it’s likely not truly over. But if she’s completely robotic—one-word replies, no sadness, anger, or sentiment—it’s a sign she’s emotionally checked out. Second, I cover how quickly she wants to exchange belongings: if she urgently wants her stuff back and wants you to take yours, she’s trying to clear you out of her life, which makes it more serious. 00:00 Will She Come Back? 00:31 Sign One Emotional vs Robotic 01:06 Robotic Means Checked Out 01:44 Sign Two Getting Stuff Back 02:29 Why Stuff Gets Left Behind 03:14 What To Do Next CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/wGHomsV1dkw 2026-03-22T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 217 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20557/if-your-girlfriend-loses-interest-in-sex-how-do-you-fix-it 2026-03-26T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/4B7cDLsW4O8/maxresdefault.jpg If Your Girlfriend Loses Interest in Sex How Do You Fix It? Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video I explain why sexual frequency often drops after the honeymoon phase, especially when a relationship becomes comfortable, predictable, or you move in together. I argue that attraction depends heavily on anticipation, uncertainty, and tension, and that routine closeness, constant availability, and excessive physical affection can kill desire. I describe practical ways to reintroduce space by reducing communication, focusing more on your own life, hobbies, work, and routines, and being less physically clingy, even when living together. I also discuss using “dread game” as a stronger option when sex has stopped and respect has dropped, by shifting all focus away so she has to reach out. I promote my book Atomic Attraction and offer phone and email consultations via my website. 00:00 Why Sex Fades 00:42 Comfort Kills Anticipation 01:27 Routine and Living Together 02:11 Power Shift Warning Signs 02:45 Bring Back Tension 03:35 Create Space and Distance 04:55 Stop Over Touching 05:35 Using Dread Carefully 06:25 Book and Consultations CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/4B7cDLsW4O8 2026-03-26T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 410 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20556/the-truth-about-what-attracts-women-atomicattraction-attractwomen 2026-03-27T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/6zTF0HNDdeg/maxresdefault.jpg The Truth About What Attracts Women #atomicattraction #attractwomen Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/6zTF0HNDdeg 2026-03-27T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 80 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20555/the-secret-to-magnetic-attraction-pulling-back-atomicattraction 2026-03-31T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/tqH9dw_hRUc/maxresdefault.jpg The Secret to Magnetic Attraction | Pulling Back #atomicattraction Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/tqH9dw_hRUc 2026-03-31T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 66 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20554/the-more-you-want-a-woman-back-the-less-likely-she-is-to-come-back-you-chase-she 2026-04-01T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/_M6E2aX_LXE/maxresdefault.jpg The More You Want a Woman Back The LESS Likely She Is to Come Back | You Chase, She Runs GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ I explain why the more you want a woman back, the less likely you are to get her back, because desperation leads to anxious, insecure mistakes. When a woman asks for space, wants a break, or says you should be friends, I say men often take her words at face value instead of understanding the subtext and responding calmly. I share an example of a man who couldn’t give space, used a drone to spy outside her bedroom window, got the cops called, and turned a request for space into a real breakup. I argue that your prior behavior contributed to the situation, so you need a complete 180: stop being weak, jealous, or insecure and instead show high-value masculine traits, become a mystery and a challenge, and create intrigue so she feels she has to win you over. I recommend my Get Her Back Action Plan and consultations. 00:00 Desperation Kills Attraction 00:32 Decode Her Words 00:58 Fear Spiral After Pullback 01:41 Drone Story Gone Wrong 02:35 Do a Complete 180 03:05 Be the Mystery Challenge 03:29 Get Her Back Action Plan 03:44 Final Sign Off CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/_M6E2aX_LXE 2026-04-01T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 230 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20567/why-saving-a-relationship-kills-a-relationship-pull-away-and-breakup-recovery 2026-03-01T17:15:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/MBNpNvm6xyQ/maxresdefault.jpg Why Saving a Relationship Kills a Relationship | Pull Away and Breakup Recovery Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I explain why trying to save or “fix” a relationship during a breakup often backfires for men, especially when it comes from panic, fear, and desperation. I argue that pushing to talk everything through, solve problems in one night, or take over the relationship dynamic makes you less mysterious, shifts you into what I describe as a feminine role, and can put you in a submissive, less attractive position. Instead, I recommend returning to a masculine frame by focusing on yourself, independence, ambition, confidence, and staying steady through emotional storms. 00:00 Why Men Panic 00:40 The Fix It Trap 01:00 You Can’t Go Back 01:15 Less Mystery More Neediness 01:57 Reclaim Your Masculine Frame 02:48 Offer and Next Steps CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/MBNpNvm6xyQ 2026-03-01T17:15:00.000Z Chris Canwell 190 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20568/understand-cave-women-understand-women 2026-02-22T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/bSputs1AxrE/maxresdefault.jpg Understand Cave Women Understand Women Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ I explore the idea that modern dating dynamics may be rooted in early human mating patterns from our hunter-gatherer past. I point to differences in testes size across species—humans compared with gorillas and chimpanzees—as a clue that early humans were likely neither strictly monogamous nor as promiscuous as chimpanzees or bonobos. I describe a theory that some cave women had sexual access to multiple men in their group as a survival strategy to increase protection, resources, and offspring survival. I argue that a woman’s loyalty would depend on the security of the society and whether an “alpha” male could protect her; without that protection, she might form sexual relationships with multiple “beta” males for collective security. I connect this to modern polyamory and claim women still hold significant sexual power, reserving devotion for men who feel capable of protection, even if it isn’t needed today. 00:00 Did Dating Drama Start in the Stone Age? 00:21 The Testes Clue: What Biology Says About Early Mating 00:46 Not Monogamous, Not Bonobos: The Likely Caveman Middle Ground 00:55 Survival Strategy: Why Women Might Have Mated with Multiple Men 01:13 Alpha Protection vs. Promiscuity: When Loyalty Makes Sense 01:42 Polyamory & Modern Echoes: Choice, Power, and Why Men Share 01:56 Ancient Instincts Shaping Modern Loyalty CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away fro https://www.youtube.com/embed/bSputs1AxrE 2026-02-22T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 135 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20569/the-psychology-of-scarcity-always-works-with-men 2026-02-17T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/TNPhrPeOIrk/maxresdefault.jpg The Psychology of Scarcity ALWAYS Works With Men Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I explain why women are more attracted to men who make a move and kiss sooner, but don’t over-text. I break down two “deadly sins of attraction”: texting a woman too much and kissing too slowly out of fear or hesitation. I share how making a confident move—especially on a first date—can activate a woman’s romantic and sexual interest and clarify whether she wants to continue seeing you. I also describe how excessive texting can weaken attraction, and why it’s better to let her do more of the texting while you focus on creating real-life chemistry. I cover how creating some tension, excitement, or even nervousness can be more attractive than just having a pleasant conversation. 00:00 Why Women Love Men Who Kiss Fast & Text Slow (Intro) 00:13 Deadly Sin #1: Texting Too Much & Forcing Conversation 00:39 Deadly Sin #2: Kissing Slow—Make the Move with Confidence 01:25 Real Example: Great Dates, Lots of Texting… But No Kiss 02:11 The Core Rule: Kiss Early to Spark Romance, Then Text Less 03:16 Don’t Fear Rejection: Even a Cheek Turn Builds Attraction 03:36 Make Her Feel Something: Tension, Mystery & Nervous Excitement CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.de https://www.youtube.com/embed/TNPhrPeOIrk 2026-02-17T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 307 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20570/women-can-t-resist-men-who-do-this-drop-expectations-to-get-more-sex 2026-02-11T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/q_5E2vSz_dc/maxresdefault.jpg Women Can't Resist Men Who Do This | Drop Expectations to Get More Sex Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I discuss how dropping expectations can lead to a more successful dating life with women. Many men approach dates with the expectation of sex, but this mindset often filters through their behavior and turns women off. Instead, I advise focusing on getting to know the woman and enjoying the interaction without the pressure of intimacy. Interestingly, this can actually increase your chances of creating a genuine connection and intimacy. I also highlight the importance of being sophisticated and not desperate. For more insights on building real attraction, check out my book 'Atomic Attraction' and consider booking a phone or email consultation through my website. 00:00 Dropping Expectations 00:07 The Pitfall of Expectations 00:29 A Real-Life Example 01:00 The Right Approach to Intimacy 01:25 The Power of Letting Go 02:38 The Counterintuitive Secret 03:16 Building Real Attraction 03:28 Conclusion and Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/q_5E2vSz_dc 2026-02-11T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 215 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20571/go-no-contact-and-give-a-woman-space-without-looking-upset 2026-02-10T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/yQ9nnmVqaVo/maxresdefault.jpg Go No Contact and Give a Woman Space Without Looking Upset Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ In this video, I explain how to go no contact and give a woman space effectively, ensuring it doesn’t appear you're upset and maximizing the impact. I'll talk through a real-life scenario where a woman asks for space and how to handle it. The key is to mirror her emotions and go no contact, breaking her expectations and resetting the relationship dynamics. If approached correctly, this tactic can reframe her perception of you as strong, stable, and not needy. For more in-depth strategies, I recommend my Get Her Back Action Plan and offer consultations through my website. 00:00 Understanding No Contact 00:56 The Woman's Perspective: Why She Needs Space 01:49 The Importance of No Contact: Resetting the Dynamic 02:31 Handling Concerns: Addressing Her Reactions 03:19 Resources for Getting Her Back CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/yQ9nnmVqaVo 2026-02-10T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 221 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20572/how-women-disrespect-men-if-you-don-t-respect-yourself-women-won-t-respect-you 2026-02-09T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/p7ea91KnxdQ/maxresdefault.jpg How Women Disrespect Men | If You Don't Respect Yourself Women Won't Respect You Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I share a story about a viewer who faced disrespect from a woman he was dating and highlight the importance of self-respect in relationships. I explain the critical mistakes men make by not addressing disrespectful behavior. I provide practical advice on how to handle such situations and emphasize that maintaining self-respect is key to earning respect from others. For more insights, check out my book 'Atomic Attraction' and consider booking a consultation for personalized advice. 00:00 Introduction and Video Overview 00:11 A Story of Disrespect: The Escalator Incident 01:41 The Park Incident: Chewing Gum Disrespect 02:16 Advice on Handling Disrespect 03:44 The Importance of Self-Respect 04:16 Conclusion and Further Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/p7ea91KnxdQ 2026-02-09T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 286 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20573/if-a-girl-breaks-up-with-you-out-of-nowhere-the-unexpected-breakup 2026-02-08T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/vDbHZWRxzto/maxresdefault.jpg If a Girl Breaks Up With You Out of Nowhere | The Unexpected Breakup Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ In this video, I'll talk about what it means if a girl breaks up with you unexpectedly and how to handle it. I discuss a situation where a guy's girlfriend abruptly ended their relationship despite things seemingly going great. This type of breakup is different because it's a sudden shock. Drawing from my book and years in psychology, I explain that such behavior often indicates a test, either conscious or subconscious. I provide insights on how to react appropriately to such tests and maintain a positive outcome. For more detailed strategies, check out my 'Get Her Back Action Plan.' You can also book consultations through my website. Until next time, take care. 00:00 Introduction 00:16 Unexpected Breakup Scenario 01:08 Analyzing the Breakup 01:47 Understanding Women's Behavior 02:25 The Concept of Testing 03:15 How to Respond to a Breakup 03:37 Conclusion CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/vDbHZWRxzto 2026-02-08T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 250 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20574/let-a-woman-go-if-you-want-to-keep-her-the-art-of-letting-go 2026-02-06T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/8Sc8ATlXG_0/maxresdefault.jpg Let a Woman GO If You Want to Keep Her | The Art of Letting Go Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ In this video, I discuss the crucial concept that to keep a woman, you must be willing to let her go. Many men fall into a scarcity mindset, thinking they'll never get another chance with a woman, leading to desperation and loss of self-respect. By releasing expectations and showing that you can live without her, you empower yourself and increase your attractiveness. I share examples and tips on how to maintain your value and ensure your presence is more important than any material gifts. Learn how ultimate power lies in your ability to walk away and get her back the right way. For further guidance, check out my Get Her Back Action Plan with a 96% recovery rate, or book a consultation on my website, developattraction.com. 00:00 The Art of Letting a Woman Go 00:12 Understanding Scarcity Mindset 01:22 Empowerment Through Letting Go 02:17 Respect and Value in Relationships 03:28 The Consequences of Transactional Relationships 04:24 Regaining Power and Attraction 04:42 Ultimate Power: Independence 05:29 Conclusion and Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/8Sc8ATlXG_0 2026-02-06T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 347 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20575/if-she-pulls-back-and-you-pull-back-the-results-are-magnetic-girlfriend-recovery 2026-02-05T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/y_vTRHwI0GM/maxresdefault.jpg If She Pulls Back and You Pull Back the Results Are Magnetic | Girlfriend Recovery Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ In this video, I discuss the common situation where a woman pulls back in a relationship and how many men react with panic and anxiety. This reaction often leads to a loss of masculine energy, which is unattractive to women. I explain why maintaining self-control and not chasing her is crucial, as women are drawn to men who display strength and confidence. I also emphasize the magnetic effect of reciprocating her distance with your own and how this can reinforce the belief that she chose the right man. For more detailed strategies on how to handle such situations and get her back effectively, check out my 'Get Her Back Action Plan' with a 96% recovery rate. You can also book phone or email consultations with me at developattraction.com. 00:00 The Magnetic Pull 00:31 Understanding the Panic Response 01:24 The Power of Masculine Energy 01:46 Common Misconceptions and Tests 02:57 The Importance of Self-Control 03:35 Reinforcing Masculine Power 05:06 Conclusion: Regaining Attraction CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/y_vTRHwI0GM 2026-02-05T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 337 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20576/women-crave-sex-when-you-do-this 2026-02-04T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/ciMRYMMEanE/maxresdefault.jpg Women Crave Sex When You Do This Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I dive into how you can make a woman crave you sexually without explicitly chasing sex. Learn why maintaining mystery and not showing desperate intentions ignites more desire in women. I explain the psychology behind why not needing sex from a woman makes her want you more, and how even players use this to their advantage. For a deeper understanding, check out my book 'Atomic Attraction' based on extensive scientific and real-life studies. You can also book a consultation with me at developattraction.com. Talk soon. 00:00 Introduction: The Secret to Making Women Crave Sex 00:26 Understanding Female Desire: The Difference Between Want and Need 01:17 The Power of Mystery and Suspense 02:37 Maintaining Attraction: The Importance of Power Dynamics 03:43 Why Players and Bad Boys Succeed 04:44 Conclusion: Applying These Principles CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/ciMRYMMEanE 2026-02-04T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 304 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20577/women-are-attracted-to-men-who-disagree-with-them-study-psychological-science 2026-02-01T16:05:09.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/SQhGGepGRCg/maxresdefault.jpg Women are Attracted to Men Who Disagree With Them | Study Psychological Science Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ Sadalla, E. K., Kenrick, D. T., & Vershure, B. (1987) “Dominance and heterosexual attraction” published in Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. The study shows that men who display dominance, independence, and resistance to influence were rated as more attractive to women than men who were agreeable or deferential. One of the behavioral signals of dominance in the experiments was not yielding, not conforming, and not automatically agreeing. CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/SQhGGepGRCg 2026-02-01T16:05:09.000Z Chris Canwell 185 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20578/how-to-make-any-woman-want-you-sexually-the-no-b-s-guide 2026-01-28T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/yVh7IM3GZb4/maxresdefault.jpg How to Make ANY Woman Want You Sexually | The No B.S. Guide Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I provide a no-nonsense guide to making any woman desire you sexually by explaining the concept of responsive desire. Unlike men, whose desire can be immediate, women need their attraction switch to be turned on through actions that invoke safety, mystery, playful tension, challenge, and emotional stability. Key points include approaching women confidently, maintaining physical touch, flirting, and ensuring emotional stability to activate their responsive desire. All these principles are elaborated in my book, 'Atomic Attraction.' Don't forget to check it out and book a consultation with me at developtraction.com. 00:00 Introduction and Video Overview 00:27 Understanding Male and Female Desire 00:55 The Study on Sexual Proposals 01:56 Activating Responsive Desire 03:11 The Importance of Confidence and Physical Interaction 04:42 Conclusion and Further Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/yVh7IM3GZb4 2026-01-28T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 322 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20579/why-women-pull-away-on-purpose 2026-01-25T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/AQnw60_bA1w/maxresdefault.jpg Why Women Pull Away on Purpose Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I explain the reasons why women often pull away from men on purpose and how this behavior is linked to assessing a man's emotional stability and power dynamics in the relationship. I discuss how a man's reaction to a woman pulling back can influence her perception of him and her attraction levels. Additionally, I offer advice on how to maintain composure and increase attraction when a woman pulls back, and introduce my Get Her Back Action Plan for those looking to recover from such situations. 00:00 Why Women Pull Away 00:43 Understanding Women's Intentions 01:05 Emotional Stability and Attraction 01:41 Power Dynamics in Relationships 02:16 Maintaining Power and Attraction 02:31 Get Her Back Action Plan 02:42 Consultations and Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/AQnw60_bA1w 2026-01-25T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 172 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20580/a-woman-only-respects-you-if-she-knows-your-true-value 2026-01-22T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/vCxrWgpp5rY/maxresdefault.jpg A Woman Only Respects You If She Knows Your True Value Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ Women often won't respect men until they recognize their true value. I emphasize the need for men to withstand tests from women, remain aware of their actions, and avoid submissive behaviors that can lead to disrespect. CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/vCxrWgpp5rY 2026-01-22T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 295 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20581/the-psychology-of-tension 2026-01-20T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/kDnEq8dD6rI/maxresdefault.jpg The Psychology of Tension Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I dive into the psychology of tension and how to build it with women to increase attraction. I share advice on how to avoid slipping into the friend zone by being decisive, confident, and making bold moves. I discuss the importance of creating mystery and letting women talk about themselves to build curiosity and sexual tension. 00:00 Introduction to Building Tension with Women 00:10 Case Study: Lack of Chemistry 01:14 The Importance of Physical Touch 01:48 Confidence and Bold Moves 02:43 Creating Mystery and Curiosity 04:39 Final Tips and Resources CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/kDnEq8dD6rI 2026-01-20T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 299 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20582/why-women-can-t-do-no-contact-they-always-break-first 2026-01-18T15:30:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/beWjbLE7HkA/maxresdefault.jpg Why Women CAN'T Do No Contact | They Always Break First Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ A lot of men worry that going no contact will backfire. They think the woman will see through it. They think she will also go no contact. They think it will turn into a cold standoff where nothing happens. That fear is wrong. Men and women experience no contact very differently. Men operate through logic and discipline. When a man commits to no contact, he can stick to the plan and tolerate the discomfort. Women operate through emotion and tension. A woman may try to go no contact, but anxiety, curiosity, and emotional pressure build over time. Eventually, she breaks. When both a man and a woman go no contact, the woman will break first as long as the man stays disciplined. No contact is not about manipulation. It is about resetting the dynamic. It removes the illusion of her control, restores your frame, and rebalances the power between you. If you are worried that no contact will fail or that she is immune to it, this video explains why that belief is wrong. 00:00 Introduction 00:14 Men's Concerns About No Contact 00:48 The Standoff Scenario 00:51 Advice Against Worrying 00:53 Online Coaches and No Contact 01:12 Men's Logical Approach 01:23 Women's Emotional Response 01:50 The Power Dynamic Reset 02:25 Reclaiming Power CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the p https://www.youtube.com/embed/beWjbLE7HkA 2026-01-18T15:30:00.000Z Chris Canwell 159 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20583/women-think-men-who-talk-too-much-are-less-intelligent-research-study 2026-01-15T16:00:00.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/M3QZ_8tY1p4/maxresdefault.jpg Women Think Men Who Talk too Much Are Less Intelligent | Research Study Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ A viewer shared his experience of feeling devastated after his girlfriend criticized his intelligence following his laser eye surgery. This led to a discussion about how men who speak too fast or too much are perceived as less intelligent by women. Learn why speaking less and more slowly can help you make a stronger impression and improve your attractiveness. 00:00 The Laser Surgery Incident 00:54 The Impact of Speaking Style on Perceived Intelligence 01:22 Research Insights on Attraction and Communication CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/M3QZ_8tY1p4 2026-01-15T16:00:00.000Z Chris Canwell 134 yes no https://vidert.com/v/dating-techniques/video/20584/how-women-use-sex-to-control-men 2026-01-13T15:30:20.000Z weekly 0.5 https://i.ytimg.com/vi/J7LkzokntnU/maxresdefault.jpg How Women Use Sex to Control Men Get Atomic Attraction (Audiobook/Kindle/Paperback): https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ In this video, I talk about how women use sex as a way to control men and gain power over men. This video will show you how to neutralize a woman's power and maintain attraction as a man. CONSULTATIONS Please click the link if you want to book a phone or email consultation: https://www.developattraction.com/emergency-help/ ATOMIC ATTRACTION If you want to maintain attraction with a woman, from the moment you first meet her all the way through to a long-term relationship, I highly recommend getting a copy of my book Atomic Attraction: https://www.amazon.com/Atomic-Attraction-Create-Maintain-Women/dp/1999872223/ GET HER BACK (ACTION PLAN) Check out the Get Her Back (Action Plan) for the best way to get your girlfriend back if she’s pulled away from you or left you: https://www.developattraction.com/get-her-back/ Trust yourself and trust the process, Chris Canwell (Psychologist) Email: chris @ developattraction.com Website: https://www.developattraction.com/ https://www.youtube.com/embed/J7LkzokntnU 2026-01-13T15:30:20.000Z Chris Canwell 286 yes no